Wise Words.
Today would have been my grandparents 58th wedding anniversary. In fact, they were together for more than 60 years as a couple. 60 years!
For the first time last year, we celebrated Christmas day at my parents’ house. My grandparents had hosted it for years, but a few weeks before the holiday my grandma hurt her knee and wasn’t feeling up to it. We had no idea that it would actually be her last Christmas.
At one point in the evening, Mr. How Sweet and I were in my parents’ foyer hugging and kissing and doing whatever newlyweds do. My grandma walked out of the bathroom and almost smacked into us as we were kissing, with a slightly embarrassed, “Ohh!.”
As our cheeks turned bright red, we fully expected her (the elegant, classy lady) to keep on walking. Instead, she turned around and walked toward us and whispered, “That is good. Never stop doing that. Don’t ever stop. You always do that.”
I will never forget that moment. Truer words have never been spoken. There has never been a lack of affection in our family, and throughout my entire life it has been quite clear that my parents, grandparents, aunts and uncles are still so in love. I am so lucky. I learned so much from her, but that, perhaps, is the most significant.
Even though today will be difficult for my grandpa, he has mentioned countless times over the last 9 months how lucky he was that he got to spend 60+ years with such an incredible woman. They were no one else like her.
I can only hope to be so lucky.
72 Comments on “Wise Words.”
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that is VERY wise advice…
Perfect advice.
This post made me tear up a bit.
I think we can learn SO much from our parents and grandparents about relationships. These days, its almost like love has become unimportant.
My grandparents had the most amazing relationship – they were always SUCH an inspiration, and actually, when my Grandpa was dying, he was on too many pain meds to remember much. He didnt even recognize us most of the time. But one thing he DID remember was his wedding day, and that he thought my grandma was beautiful.
That gave me chills!
this brought tears to my eyes…i remember the day you told us what happened and i can’t even begin to imagine how you grandpa must feel. i’ll be keeping him and you in my prayers!
That is one of the sweetest stories I have ever heard… definitely tearing up…
beautiful post. My grandparents have been married for 65 years, and they are a great example for the rest of the family:)
beautiful post, and such wonderful advice. My husband and I say all the time that we’re never going to stop being the way we are now (affectionate, obviously in love, etc). How wonderful to have such examples in your life. I feel like all we hear is “wait 10 years and see if you feel the same way”. That’s so depressing – why would you tell someone that? Love this post – it’s so uplifting! ;)
Ok, I just tagged this under Inspiration in my reader. What a beautiful family!
Great advice!! And what a wonderful photo!
Oh how beautiful! My grandparents recently celebrated their 65th wedding anniversary and they have been a couple for more than 70 years (they started dating/courting at 16). We’re so blessed to have such vivid signs of love in our lives. Thanks so much for sharing, Jessica!
That is amazing!
what a beautiful story and great advice to hold onto! love that picture of you at your wedding!!
this is one of my most favorite posts from you. so true. i will miss my grandma too – always do during the holidays. it’s really nice to read this from ya. thanks for sharing with us.
Beautiful family, beautiful words! Thank you for such a touching, elegant post.
what a wonderful story…..
:tears:
It has been a pretty stressful week, with -honestly- not enough affection.
This post touched and inspired me. Thank you for sharing your grandmother’s wise words with us.
Aww what a sweet story!!!!
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beautiful. love her little words of advice, and the pictures are so beautiful.
Way to go make me cry at my desk :’). SO SWEET! They are a handsome couple!
Awww, this post is SO sweet. Great story.
You are quite lucky to have such an example in your life. My grandparents love each other too, in a way that is perhaps less obvious but nonetheless so very real. My parents are a different story, yet I still hold out hope that my story will be different than theirs.
Never stop. She was right. A beautiful story from a beautiful woman. Keep bakin’ and keep kissin’ that man of yours! ;)
OH what a heart felt post:) Just makes me smile. You sure do have a great family, Jessica!!
Aww, this was so sweet- made me tear up a little bit. I love love & I love to love :) Sounds like your grandmother was the same way.
Totally made me cry. I was just thinking the other day about how busy we get sometimes and forget about the little things like “kissing!” It’s important and still sweeps me off my feet after 16 years!!
Awwww!
I bet your Grandma was the sweetest!
:)
This was such a sweet post. I hope to have half of what they did someday :)
What a lovely post, Jessica. You are lucky to have such an affectionate family that appreciates one another. I’m glad your grandma was able to pass that advice on to you. How Sweet, indeed! :)
so sweet!! And great advice!
Beautiful advice. This post made me very happy. :)
I am a huge sap. This brought tears to my eyes.
Tears in my eyes!! Beautiful story. :)
This really touched me. My family wasn’t so lucky in the love department, and it makes me so happy that yours is filled with so much love and romance. That’s really special!
This brings tears to my eyes. I think old love is the most beautiful kind of all- to be with someone for 50 years and to still love them more than anything. My grandfather still looks at my grandmother like she’s the most beautiful thing he’s ever seen, and says that God better take him first, because he couldn’t live without her. It makes me believe in love :)
Precious! And, yes, those are wise words. Life is too darn short not to experience those butterfly and fireworks moments with loved ones:)
Oh, I so want that too! True love stories get me every time. I will be thinking about your grandfather…I know your grandmother is watching over him.
I totally cried while reading this. That is a fantastic story and she sounds like such a warm grandma. :)
Awwe this is so sweet :) She must have been an amazing woman. And it’s ture..never stop showing your loved ones that you actually do love them. You never know when you wont be able to anymore.
This is the very sweetest thing I have read in a long time. Thank you!
Thank you for sharing this! How sweet. Grandmother’s are amazing. My grandma dropped Christmas decorations for my apartment off at my work today, because, “It doesn’t seem right for you NOT to have a tree, I don’t care how small it is.” :)
You have an amazing family, Jessica!
Crying here too. My parents were married for 67 years before my dad died (mom’s still with us.) It’s so wonderful to see the love between two people who have been together for so long. I plan on staying married to hubby for 67 years, but here’s the kicker…. we’re only HALF WAY there at 32 years. Can I really tolerate him that long? LOL
This is why I love you!
oh my. those are amazing words and great advice. Your grandpa is super strong
What a beautiful thing to share. It seems like our grandparents generation really had something solid about love they were willing to pass along. When my grandma passed, my pap visited her grave every day. He said there was never a stronger love. That sort of commitment is so refreshing. Especially now…with the holidays around, it’s nice to remember that sort of thing.
Grandparents are so wise – I always listen up really well whenever the Husband’s grandma starts talking to me. I take it all in!
What beautiful advice! My family is also extremely affectionate, and I LOVE seeing/knowing that the couples in my family are still in love.
Such a beautiful post. And your grandmother is gorgeous!
what a sweet post :)
So romantic! Love this story but it also makes me sad to think about 60 years of that kind of love having to end. But still, thanks for such a sweet post!!
I’m glad I’m not the only one who got misty eyed at this lovely post! She sounds like an incredible woman to have known.
I am so entirely NOT a crybaby – but this post has just made me weep buckets. And I’m at work…!
How is it done, to be so happy in love? It can’t be just good luck. What’s the secret, I wonder?